Saya dan suami bercadang untuk membiayai pelajar mualaf yang ingin melenjutkan pelajaran ke pusat pengajian tinggi dan memerlukan bantuan kewangan. Saya berbesar hati kalau dapat pihak Perkim memperkenalkan kepada kami mana mana pelajar mualaf yang memerlukan bantuan ke pusat pengajian tinggi.
Wa alaikumussalam warhmathullahi wabrakathuh .. kami berdoa kehadrat Allah swt agar niat tuan dan puan dimaqbulkan Allah swt. inshaAllah kami akan maklumkan saudara dengan secepat mungkin sila hubungi kami ditalian 03 40412482 ustaz Sayyid .
sekian terima kasih Ustaz Sayyid
Dear ustaz, nk tnye blh? I bdk kristian mmg bminat dgn agama islam. ada pemuda ni die ckp nk kahwin dgn i dlm 3 thn . Then nk btunang thn dpn la kot. Dlm ptunangan, kte tkar agama jgak ke? sbb ingt thun ke2 hjng thun br nk ge daftar kt perkim.
Assalamu alaikum Dear sister. kami berdoa agar sauadari dapat hidayah dari Tuhan Allah.saudarai dinasihatkan bermula memplajari agama Islam darisekarang inshaAllah satu hari nanti akan dapat hidayah dari Tuhan masuk Islam bukan apa yang kita menuntukan dengan tarikh tetapi hidayah adalah dari Tuhan oleh yang demikian belajar dulu  Seorang Muslim hanya boleh bertunang dengan seorang Muslim perlu menjadi seorang Muslim sebelum bertunang. sila datang ke pejabt PERKIM inshaAkan dapat bantuan sewajarnya sekian Ustaz Sayyid
Saya ingin tahu apakah hukum berkahwin dgn lelaki Kristian(yang akan memeluk agama Islam)? Saya bertanya pendapat pada rakan2. Ada yg menghalang..dan ada yg menyuruh saya ikut kata hati.
Saya ibu tunggal kepada 3 org anak. Dan saya mengenali seorang lelaki kristian yang berasal dari Amerika. Dia ingin mengahwini saya. Bolehkah ustaz beri pendapat dari segi hukum hakam. Terima kasih.
Wa alaikumussalm warhmathullahi wabarakathuh InshaAllah saudari boleh berkahwin dengan beliau jika beliau memeluk agama.. sila nasihatkan beliau datang ke pejabat PERKIM dan ustaz PERKIM akan memberi nasihat dan juga inshaAllah akan membantu menguruskan pengislaman dan pelajaran berkaitan agama Islam sebagai seorang wanita saudari memang tak boleh membing seorang lelaki yang bukan muhrim oleh yang demikian rujuklah perkara ini kepada pihak PERKIM selapas dapat di hidayahkan inshaAllah bolehlah bernikah tetapi sauadari dinasihatkan menjaga maruah diri dan maruah agama apa bila bergaul denagn seoarang lalki yang bukan muhrim .. sekian wassalam ustaz Sayyid .
ustaz, sy nak tanya..boleh ke jika sy memeluk agama islam tp sy tidak bertudung??ini disebabkan sy ingin memeluk islam tanpa pengetahuan family sy kerana sy lum sedia nk beritahu mrk..cuma sy akan menjaga mkn minum sy agar tidak mngambil yg haram.bolehkah sy tidak bertudung slps memeluk islam dgn sbb utk keselamatan sy? sy akn bertudung slps sy sedia memberitahu keluarga sy.
Assalamu alaikum walhidayah saudari boleh masuk Islam dan tidak perlu bertudung sehingga saudari dapat kepastikan keselamatan.... kerana Allah Maha Mengetahui hal saudari ... sekian wassalam Ustaz Sayyid
salam 1malaysia..ingin tanya,
1)jika hendak masuk agama islam..boleh kah nama asal kiter dikekalkan.
2)dalam tempoh berapa lama boleh menjadi seorang islam
Assalamu alaikum walhidayah  saudara boleh menerima nama Islam dan juga boleh kekalkan nama Asal contoh ALI ATAU ALI KITER. ATAU KITER ......Nama bukan satu masalah sila hubungi PERKIM akan dapat diselsaikan  jika sudah mengenali ,memahami, serta menErima ALLAH sebagai Tuhan dan MUHAMMAD sebagai Pesuruh Allah di dalam bebrapa minuts denagn mengucap kedua kalimah shahadah sauadara akan menjadi seoarang Muslim dan akan dapat Kad pengislaman kemudian sauadara boleh memplajari agama Islam di kelas PERKIM untuk mempah ilmu pengathuan berkaitan ajaran agama Islam.Sekian wassalam Ustaz Sayyid
Assalamualaikum...sy ingin bertanya, perlukah seorang lelaki bertanggungjawab ke atas wanita yang dibantunya untuk memeluk islam?maksudnya perlukah sehingga berkahwin dengan wanita tersebut walaupun hanya menganggapnya seperti ahli keluarga?
Wa alaikumussalam warahmathullahi wabarakathuh apabila seorang telah memeluk agama Islam adalah menjadi fardhu kifayah di atas umat Islam untuk menjaga dan memelihara muallaf tersebut .Sebagai seorang lelaki sauadara wajib menjaga hukum Allah swt [akhlak/hijab] apa bila begaul dengan seorang permpuan yang bukan muhram .Sila mensihatkan sauadari hubungi dengan PERKIM atau Pejabat Agama Islam yang berhampiaran untuk mendapatkan bantuan sewajarnya segi pengajian Islam dan kebajikan setrusnya jika perkahwinan disetjui oleh kedua pihak bernikahlah dengan segra dengan hukum Allah swt. sekian wassalam ustaz Sayyid
I would like some enlightenment to the predicament that i am in. I have converted for 9 years now and i was happily married and were blessed with two children, until recently "It" all happened. "It being the divorce.My wife has been asking for a divorce since early 2010, with the reason I don't give enough attention to her, I had abandoned her.
The fact of the matter is I am working in KL and only travel back to Kedah once a week. And the little time that I have with my family I'll use it to the fullest.
On the first day of Adilfitri we had celebrated it after 8 years of marriage in Kuala Lumpur. As usual I had gone for prayers and then returned home.Then we went visiting. After all the visiting as we were driving home we had gotten in to an argument, in which she said she wants to go home to Sintok, Kedah.I then drove back to the house that I rented in KL and there she started packing and was getting prepared to leave for Sintok,Kedah. I had tried to calm her down which had resulted to her leaving with our two children. All of this happened at approximately 5.45 pm. She then drove off with the children to Sintok,Kedah. An approximate 6 hrs drive from KL. After 15 mins of sitting at home, I then called her several times and told her to wait for me where ever she was as i need to speak to her.I then rode my motorbike to the location where she was i.e close to the exit of Lembah Beringin.
When I finally arrived at the said location approximately 6.30pm,I tried to persuade her to return home as it is dangerous for her to drive at that hour of the day together with the children. I also mentioned that we can drive to Sintok,Kedah first thing in the morning to celebrate Aidilfitri with her family. She kept insisting and by then i had lost my patience and said "Kalau tak balik jatuh talak". My intentions were for the safety of the children and my wife.
This resulted to her driving back home to Sintok,Kedah.
She then with no hesitation, on the next working day filed in the petition for the divorce in the Syariah Court in Kedah. In the interim period I had contacted her via telephone and she had mentioned to me that a Shiekh from the court is at her parents house. He is there to discuss the matter. My question, 1) Is this ethical and allowed? 2)My intention for her to be safe, going back to Kedah is also my home, so is the talak enforced or valid? She was in a safe place. i.e our home.
After much effort asking her to reconcile, the date of the hearing came. We were called in to the Sheikh's chamber where the petition that she filed was deliberated.(Before we walked in my wife had asked me to make things easy for her) The sheikh had questioned her according to the petition. She answered. Then I was questioned. He had asked me if i had said those words, I said yes. Then he asked me if i was "waras and sedar", i asked in which context...I was shot down and he again asked me. I answered 'sedar tapi dalam keadaan marah'. He never asked me on my intentions and what i meant when i said those words. When i said it I wanted her to go where its safe. (to my understanding, the intent(niat) must be there when melafaz talak). However, the judgment was made and he ruled "talak satu".
From the date of the judgment, I had and am still trying to persuade my wife to reconcile. Lately, she had mentioned that she had collected the "surat cerai" and have registered the divorce in the "pejabat kadi".
Post Mortem & Possible Action
Frankly, I didn't and never want this and i feel that the judgment passed is not fair and unjust.
Therefore,taking these events in to consideration I want to put in an appeal on the judgment passed. I had also called "Sisters in Islam" for their point of view and opinion. They had mentioned that the case is open ended and the execution was not right. Further to this I also inquired with the Syariah Court of Kedah weather if I can appeal. They said yes but considering that the 14 day grace period has passed, I will need to bring this case to the Syariah high court.
1) Is the talak enforced, as she did balik?
2) The judgment passed, was it just and rightful?
3) The execution of the case, was it right?
4) Should I proceed with the appeal? Do I have a case?
I feel as though I was cheated and lied to.No doubt I have my flaws, but I want justice to be served accordingly. I feel sad and lonely as a "Mualaf" coz she was my only family. I keep praying for the reunion as I feel this is all a rather huge misunderstanding.
Please advice me accordingly.
Muhammad Kamal Abdullah.
Wa alaikumussalam warahmathullah....Dear brother let us conclude in a simple way :If there is a Love in between both of you then life is very very easy and could be settled everything" in your case some how there is gape where by your wife is not happy with your life style [your work,time etc......] she may be loving you very affectionately .....
..........She kept insisting and by then i had lost my patience and said "Kalau tak balik jatuh talak". My intentions were for the safety of the children and my wife.
from the above statements ... two things are very clear one :she wanted to go as she feel secure and safe in her journey second: you prevented her from going with your valid reasons...... then started arguments both of your love ,relationship,and acceptance could not bring both of you to a common agreement..... then you imposed on her religious bound of divorce......but she was with her determination to go ...
and your decision "Kalau tak balik jatuh talak" is a religious law that is why religious authority decided in order to the religious rules. syariah court's decision is correct according to the law .. in fact that is what you wanted that particular time of your anger through your words ..... even though you do not intent to divorce your wife. In Islam Nikah [marriage] takes place with a word of oath/agreement that is "Aku terima...... " with that words of agreement you became her husband so you have to protect your words of agreement by all means . Islam never allow the words of oath to be used for jokes,fun,or for any unintentional etc..../
Certainly Islam is Justice,Love,Mercy and Compassion and it is an easy way of life indeed , if both of you still love and wish to live together [ the divorce was an immediate reaction of anger or whatever..] both of you still can be husband and wife by "RUJUK BALIK" It means you only need to declare in the syariah court/pejabat Kadhi that "i am accepting her again as my wife" then again both you becomes wife and husband.
Dear brother, Please consult a learned Ustaz to get some religious advise inshaAllah you will be granted the lovely blossomed married life Ameen.
Thank you Ustaz Sayyid
saya telah berkawan dengan seorang lelaki yang berbangsa cina.kami juga ada merancang untuk berkahwin dan teman lelaki saya ada menyatakan kesediaan beliau untuk memeluk islam.masalahnya sekarang ini,saya tidak tahu macam mana nak menolong beliau untuk memeluk islam.bolehkah ustaz menolong saya untuk menyelesaikan masalah ini?
Wa alaikumussalam warahmathullahi wabarakathuh sila nasihatkan belai datang ke pejabat PERKIM inshaAllah kami akan memabntu untuk menyelsaikan semua urusan berkaitan pengislaman NO:TEL: pejabat PERKIM 03 40412482 .sekian wassalam ustaz Sayyid